SELF LEADERSHIP COACHING
OWN IT. BE IT. LIVE IT
THRIVE IN LIFE AND RELATIONSHIPS
You were born with unique gifts and SELF energy!
You were meant to enjoy your life with an abundant, confident, and courageous mindset!
Unfortunately, many of us learn to value what others value. We develop a system early on that protects, ignores and exiles the most precious parts of ourselves. Our joy, playfulness, innocence, trust and spontaneity gets buried with these parts.
Work with me to create more space inside by getting to know the parts of you that have learned to protect the more vulnerable parts, (inner critic, judge, controller, substance abuser, caretaker). Become the confident, compassionate leader of your life and learn how to connect with ease to your true courageous, connected, and grounded self!
INTERNAL FAMILY SYSTEMS MODEL
When we acknowledge, befriend, and listen to the parts of us that feel like they are sabotaging our success and happiness (inner critic, judge, procrastinator, controller, planner, pessimist, overeater, drinker, distractor, etc.), we ultimately experience a profound shift. We often discover that they are parts of us in extreme roles that are usually formed at a young age. These parts feel like it is most important to protect us from feeling the flood of shame, abandonment, loneliness, fear, etc. After working with, and getting to know these protective and scared parts, they begin to feel understood and often free to transform their roles in our system. Our systems ultimately realign and integrate, and more spontaneous, playful and joyful sides emerge. We then find ourselves more in tune with our confidence, compassion, courage, creativity, connectedness, and clarity. This modality is evidence based and is sweeping the nation. Find out more here IFS
In Psychodrama we explore the experiences in our lives that hold triggers and pain. We explore this through reenactment with, and using other group members. This enables us to create the scene/scenes through the eyes of the protagonist exactly as they remember it. We use role reversal, empty chair, mirror position, doubling, and sharing. Often people reenact scenes with family members, co workers, partners, friends, people who have passed, parts of themselves, etc.
They are able to express the feelings they were not able to at the time, and say what they never had the chance to say. This is a wonderful way to heal unfinished business, connect to unmourned feelings, and often have a do-over. Watching the scene through "the mirror position", which is almost like watching it as a play, is also offers incredible insight and clarity. Throughout the process of the drama, it is common to connect to our inner children (yes, there's more than one)! These younger parts of us yearn for our attention and acknowledgement. This work is incredibly deep and very rewarding.
Find out more here Psychodrama
Together we identify the steps, and craft the goals that will stretch you forward to take you swiftly toward your dream career, business, and life. We will work together and co create concrete actions that work.
Being accountable only to ourselves is extremely difficult. Our nature is to take the safe path of least resistance. We will use tools to help you stretch yourself, and step up to those uncomfortable actions. This process changed the game for my practice and product business.
Find out more here Coaching
We will have a quick chat and discover what kind of coaching you are interested in. We will also discuss what your goals are and what time frame you would like to accomplish them in.
I look forward to working with you.
Get In Touch!
Have you ever been told that you need to silence or banish your inner critic?
What if I were to tell you that we need to befriend it!
We set up strategies both people can work on together. We define each others strengths, conflict resolution styles, and set goals for both of you. We will set up ways to be accountable to one another. This is highly impactful and powerful.
SLIDING SCALE AVAILABLE